Nine Signs That Your Partner is Cheating

Web Article from www.marieclaire.com by Rich Santos

When you get suspicious that your significant other is cheating, be careful not to appear to be paranoid. You have to walk a fine line — you don’t want to make false accusations.


So, while I’m sharing this list of cheating red flags, I concede that it’s a tricky situation. It’s hard to be sure if someone’s cheating, but protect yourself: Be vigilant, and pay attention to your mind and spirit within the relationship. But, at the same time, be careful not to let anxiety lead the way because unnecessary paranoia will just drive your lover away.


Here are some red flags that may signal that your significant other is cheating:

Less Sex

Unless he’s Superman, he can only have so much sex. So, if he’s getting it from another source, you might notice. Whether it’s another woman or a porn addiction — even if he’s not cheating — a decrease in sex signals serious issues in the relationship.

Jumpy Cell Phone Habits

In a perfect world, we’d be open about sharing our correspondence with our significant others. Most of the time, we trust that we don’t have to worry about who is texting or calling them. But, if you notice that he is getting protective and/or nervous when he gets calls or texts, it may be cause for alarm.

Gushing or Talking About Someone Suddenly

You know that exhilarating feeling you get when you meet someone new and exciting? You want to tell the world about him. One of my exes began talking about a guy a lot near the end of our relationship — he just always seemed to be at her social gatherings that I didn’t happen to attend. Sure enough, after she dumped me, she began dating him.

Disconnect

Even though relationships ebb and flow naturally, if you’re sensing that he’s drawing away from you, then there may be someone else. Emotional disconnect should be investigated regardless of whether it’s caused by cheating. There’s a problem if he’s not laughing or seeming as passionate as usual. It’s hard to spread love/passion between two people, so the person who used to have it will feel it slipping away if it’s being given to someone else.

He’s Pulling Houdinis

If he’s disappearing, traveling, or unavailable to the point where you are starting to wonder, then he could be cheating. Also, these times tend to take on a pattern because it’s tough to synch up schedules, especially in secret.

Friends Acting Strange

His friends will certainly remain loyal to him in most cases. They will not let you know what’s going on, but they will definitely be racked with guilt, and their behavior may change slightly when they are around you while protecting his secret.

Caught in Other Lies About Other Things

If you catch him in a lie, your trust will naturally be damaged. Don’t hold a grudge — forgiveness is a good thing. You can forgive, but don’t forget. If he consistently breaches your trust, it’s establishing a pattern of behavior that leads to cheating. Do yourself a favor: If he keeps lying, whether these lies are big or small, get out while you can and don’t let him talk his way back in.

Been There, Done That

I always say: “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” If he’s done it before, he’s definitely capable of doing it again. It has nothing to do with you, which is why you can’t say that he cheated on his previous lover because she didn’t keep him happy. Cheating is a self-serving act in which the cheater doesn’t take his significant other into consideration. If someone is upfront with you that he’s made mistakes in the past, maybe give them a chance — but make it a long probationary period before you let your guard down.

Your Gut Tells You So

Don’t ignore your sixth sense. People are gifted at sensing when something doesn’t feel right. Whether there are red flags in your relationship that are clueing you in or not, if something feels off, don’t ignore this feeling. Usually that feeling is right, and something intangible may have led to you figuring it all out.

General Motors: Weight Loss Diet Program

After the long holiday I’m sure we all gained weight ang its about time for us to do some diet and exercises. I found this useful diet program in my email and I want to share it to you guys.

During the first seven days you must abstain from all alcohol. You must drink 10 glasses of water each day.

Day One All fruits except bananas. Your first day will consist of all the fruits you want. It is strongly suggested that you consume lots of melons the first day. Especially watermelon and a loupe. If you limit your fruit consumption to melons, your chances of losing three lbs. on first day are very good.

Day Two All vegetables. You are encouraged to eat until you are stuffed with all the raw or cooked vegetables of your choice. There is no limit on the amount or type. For your complex carbohydrate, you will start day two with a large baked potato for breakfast. You may top the potato with one pat of butter.

Day Three A mixture of fruits and vegetables of your choice. Any amount, any quantity. No bananas yet. No potatoes today.

Day Four Bananas and milk. Today you will eat as many as eight bananas and drink three glasses of milk. This will be combined with the special soup which may be eaten in limited quantities.

Day Five Today is feast day. You will eat beef and tomatoes. Eat two 10 oz. portions of lean beef. Hamburger is OK. Combine this with six whole tomatoes. On day five you must increase your water intake by one quart. This is to cleanse your system of the uric acid you will be producing.

Day Six Beef and vegetables. Today you may eat an unlimited amount of beef and vegetables. Eat to your hearts content.

Day Seven Today your food intake will consist of brown rice, fruit juices and all the vegetables you care to consume.

Tomorrow morning you will be 10-17 lbs. lighter than one week ago. If you desire further weight loss, repeat the program again. You may repeat this program as often as you like, however, it is suggested that you are allowed two glasses of white wine in addition to the instructions on the program. You may substitute champagne for white wine. Under no circumstances are you to drink any other alcoholic beverages with the exception of beer which is allowed. Any liquor (bourbon,vodka, rum) is forbidden. Cream drinks are especially forbidden. You may have an occasional cordial such as creme de menthe or schnapps, but you must always limit yourself to two drinks. If you wine, drink only wine that day. If you have beer, drink only beer that day, etc. Alcohol adds empty calories to your diet. However, after the first week it will help your digestion and settle your stomach.

Backstreet Boys… Live In Manila

Backstreet Boys This is us tour

After long years of waiting the Backstreet boys fans are now rejoicing because the boys are having their concert in Araneta Coliseum this coming February 27, 2010 Saturday at 8:00PM so grab your tickets now!

For ticket inquiries and reservations, contact Ticketnet at 911-5555

Seat and Price:

  • Patron VIP (Reserved Seating) @ 4760PHP
  • Patron (Reserved Seating) 4280 PHP
  • Lower Box (Reserved Seating) 3810 PHP
  • Upper Box A (Reserved Seating) 2860 PHP
  • Upper Box B @ 960 PHP
  • Gen. Admission 480PHP

Im not a big fan of them but to be honest I already watch their first concert in Manila way back when I was in High School so as of now Im still not sure if im going to watch it but my friends already reserved VIP tickets.

Anyway here are the set list of their songs that they performed in other countries for Backstreet boys “This Is Us Tour” so Im not sure if this will be their set list in Araneta.

  1. “Everybody (Backstreet’s Back)”
  2. “We’ve Got It Goin’ On”
  3. PDA
  4. “Quit Playing Games (With My Heart)” (short version)
  5. “As Long as You Love Me”
  6. Howie’s solo video (The Fast and the Furious)
  7. “This Is Us”
  8. “Show Me the Meaning of Being Lonely”
  9. “All I Have to Give”
  10. “She’s a Dream”
  11. “I’ll Never Break Your Heart”
  12. A.J.’s solo video (Fight Club)
  13. “The Call” (short version)
  14. “The One” (short version)
  15. “Bigger” (includes a sample of “True” by Spandau Ballet)
  16. “Shape of My Heart” (short version)
  17. “I Want It That Way”
  18. Brian’s solo video (Enchanted)
  19. “More Than That”
  20. “Undone”
  21. “Incomplete”
  22. Nick’s solo video (The Matrix)
  23. “Larger Than Life”
  24. “All of Your Life (You Need Love)”
  25. “Bye Bye Love”
  26. Encore: “Straight Through My Heart”

Tanging Yaman

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Katorse Stars Erich Gonzales, Ejay Falcon and Enchong Dee plus hit love team Matt Evans and Melissa Ricks face a new challenge as the Philippine television welcomes their new show “Tanging Yaman” which will premiere on January 11.

How far have they gone? The love triangle of Nene, Gabby and Jojo has caught the hearts of the public in their unparalleled series “Katorse”. As 2010 starts its way and fuels a brand new show, an additional conflict tests the said trio as Melissa Ricks and Matt Evans enter into the scene via their newest tv project, Tanging Yaman. How will these young ones conquer the screen this time?

Babies of ABS-CBN’s talent search Star Circle Quest, Erich and Melissa are both excited to work with each other since this will be the first time that the two teen actresses will work in one soap opera. How are they going to portray their opposite roles in the story as they move together in a timely and relevant show that will once again grasp the attention of the people?

On the other hand, it is a known fact that ‘Katorse’ has created a tight rivalry between Ejay and Enchong. Will the competition in their previous series continue in this story? How will Matt carry the pressure brought by Ejay and Enchong’s hit characters from their recent soap? “Hindi naman ako kinakabahan na makipagsabayan sa kanila, naeexcite na nga ako na makatrabaho silang tatlo. Sa tingin ko, mag-eenjoy ako working with Erich and her two leading men,” Matt shared.

What does it take to be a certified primetime star? Will these young artists deserve such title? Will they be able to captivate the viewers? It’s for you to judge and find out in Tanging Yaman this January 11 after Precious Hearts Romances on ABS-CBN.

Philippine holidays and long-weekend schedule for 2010

As we bid goodbye to 2009 now is the perfect time for us to plan for our next vacation! 2010 will be a new adventure for me and by now I should be planning for my next travel adventure or just plain old leisure trip.

Plan your vacation here are the list of Philippine holidays and long-weekend schedule for 2010 based on RA 9492 and Proclamation 1841.

  • January 1 (Fri) – New Year’s Day (five-day long weekend from December 30 to January 3)
  • February 23  (Mon) – EDSA Revolution Anniversary (holiday for schools only, three-day long weekend from February 21 to 23)
  • April 1 (Thu) – Holy Thursday
  • April 2 (Fri) – Good Friday (four-day long weekend from April 1 to 4)
  • April 9 (Fri) – Araw ng Kagitingan (three-day long weekend from April 9 to 11)
  • May 1 (Sat) – Labor Day
  • June 14 (Mon) – Independence Day (three-day long weekend from June 12 to 14)
  • August 23 (Mon) – Ninoy Aquino Day (three-day long weekend from August 21 to 23)
  • August 30 (Mon) – National Heroes Day (three-day long weekend from August 28 to 30)
  • September – Eid’l Fitr (to be announced, calculated September 10, possible three-day long weekend from September 10 to 12)
  • November 1 (Mon) – All Saints Day (three-day long weekend from October 30 to November 1)
  • November – Eid ‘l Adha (to be announced, calculated November 16)
  • November 29 (Mon) – Bonifacio Day (three-day long weekend from November 27 to 29)
  • December 24 (Fri) – Non-Working Holiday
  • December 25 (Sat) – Christmas
  • December 27 (Mon) – Rizal Day (four-day long weekend from December 24 to 27)
  • December 31 (Fri) – Non-Working Holiday
  • January 1  (Sat) New Year’s Day (three-day long weekend from December 31 to January 2)
   

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